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Thursday, September 06, 2007, 12:59:00 PM

I've heard alot of stories from my girlfriends. And sad to say its all about heartbreaking relationships stories. Even if its not about relationship, its just LOVE.
It heartwrenching to hear ur friends being heartbroken and all stressed up just because of a particular guy whom they thought are their everything and risk all just to make their mate happy.And in the end, when its over, all ur sacrifice just go down the drain, as if nothing happened and just like that someone doesn't even exist in ur life. Then u have to go back to square one, find a new one and move on. MOVE ON? its never easy in case u think it is.
Oh well,Its just another reason as to why I am still single and not ready to be in love. Because i can't imagine myself being in their position. I am not strong and i don't think i am capable of handling tough problems. In this case, heartbreaks. Its just so scary when i think about it.
All the love stories i heard are about boys ditching them, doing things from that what i know, boys should not be doing. Making use of girls as they know we are devoted to them. Like, hello? Do we girls look like slaves to u boys?
One story was, a friend of mine, trying to move and forget about the guy after a few chance given to him to change for the better but no change were made. I find him such a pig. Its one 5 years relationship u're handling and u've been through alot and all he does is take it easy and keep apologizing for mistakes which happens one after another. I pity my girlfriend, now its over and she's trying her very best to move on. And when trying to do so, this jerk comes back running to her asking for the 875748567 th time to get back together. Its sad. And u know, when u think u are strong enough to move on, if the particular someone comes back bothering u, it is really hard to get back on ur feet and live life. Its already a sad thing u broke one's heart and to add salt to wound, u come back pleading to her saying u'll change. Tell me, which girl would not give in? We girls have very soft fragile heart u know.Sighs.
Another one, is about a guy giving hopes, that in the end just leaves my friend hanging loose. Those romantic friendship turning relationships but halfway through just ends. You know? And god knows how heartbreaking it is to know that one friend of urs whom u regard special and have been on dates and know somethings going on between the both of you, in the end post pictures of him and another girl on the net, praising her about her beauty, without even thinking about the girl u used to date. WHAT THE FREAKING HELL WAS HE THINKING?! And to make things worst, it just have to happen on her birthday? Sad sad sad. I feel so bad yet i have no words that i could use to comfort her.
There's just so many experiences i've heard that gives me the thinking that i should not be in a relationship any sooner. God knows when. Till then, i would just continue life as it is. To my dearest single girlfriends, be strong and live life to its fullest. And to those friends in relationships, i wish u all the best. :)
You are the music in me.
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