'I didn't want us to burn out
I didn't come here to hold you, now I can't stop
Wednesday, February 04, 2009, 10:55:00 AM
My morning wake up call
Well, now i realise that life is really not smooth sailing at all. Individuals face different problems each day and i guess the one that may impact the most will be, love life. Every single person comes from different walks of life. You may get to know this person from here there, everywhere but at the end of the day, you'll tend to understand their different styles and ways that you get so used to being with them. When problem arises and when you think you can't handle it, the first thing that comes to mind is, break up. But that is actually the last thing you would wanna do. Yes, you tend to regret, because anger has taken over and thats the best decision, you think.I've been through tears and regretting the next month. Oh how foolish was I? But I don't deny, there are memories that you wouldn't wanna select and delete.
This morning, i was awaken by a call from my brother, and i hate morning calls when i do not expect them. My beauty sleep you know. Anyhoos, he was pleading me to come down and help him pull(?) his gf. So i was like, WTF, i am sleepy, don't bother me!
But as soon as i came down, i saw his gf crying, or more like wailing? And hugging to him tight, not letting go. So i thought, hmm? Whats the problem here. Then i managed to understand and get a glimpse of the scenario. Okay, my bro is pissed about stg and wants her to go home, but she refuses to cause she's afraid my bro would leave her. Make any sense?
Yea, that bad. When you love someone, there's just things you don't realise you'd do to get them back. And that explains the presence of never ending love dramas you see on the screen. :)
Well, what i'm tryna say actually is,
Patience is all it takes to be in a long lasting relationship.If you know you love that someone, and if he/she is your soulmate..he makes you angry, be patient, when she makes you angry, be patient. Talk things out and there's sure a way out. But when you are just not interested anymore, there's no more patience, you just wanna get out of it, you end up giving EXCUSES. Don't lie.
So,If you're impatient, then just don't think about even being in one. As for me, I don't wanna take the risk for now! :)